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sometimes

i don't understand people's need for attention
and sometimes i don't understand why people can't just let go
there's a saying on my wall that says
"in the end, what matters most is,
how well did you live
how well did you love
how well did you learn to let go"
and i used to this it was bull shit
but now, i realize it's true.
you never regret living or loving really, well, sometimes
but you always regret not letting go of something, and then it eventually pulls you down
letting go is the best thing you can do for yourself sometimes. and i do believe that.
it's seriously detrimental to your health and the one you're holding on to if you won't just
let go.
letting go is so healthy. some people in life run away, but that's not what i'm talking about
i'm talking about cutting unhealthy ties, and burning the unhealthy fucky bridges. it's so good for you
dwelling in the past and living for something when all you're trying to do is salvage what remains of an unhealthy relationship or situation, isn't good for you. it's not good for you at all.
i wish everyone knew that.

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